实用心理学

实用心理学

六点起床很困难，背单词很困难，静下心很困难……但是总有一些人，五点可以起床，一天背六课单词，耐心读完一本书。谁也没有超能力，但是自己可以决定一天去做什么事情。你以为没有了路，事实上路可能就在前方一点点。那些比自己强大的人都在拼命，我们还有什么理由停下脚步？

什麼是愛情？

柏拉圖：「什麼是愛情？」 

老師蘇格拉底：「請你到麥田走一次，要不回頭地走，在途中要摘一棵最大最好的麥穗，但只可以摘一次。」 柏拉圖覺得很容易，充滿信心地出去，誰知過了半天他仍沒有回去。

最後，他垂頭喪氣出現在老師面前並空手而回的說：「很難得看見一株看似不錯的，卻不知是不是最好，不得已，因為只可以摘一次，只好放棄，再看看有沒有更好的，到發現已經走到盡頭時，才發覺手上一棵麥穗也沒有。」 

這時，蘇格拉底告訴他： "那就是愛情"

Thoughts on my Birthday

I felt kind of indifferent this time. In the past years, Negative thoughts takes more % in me... I constantly worried if I make the right choices, worried if I give the best in everything I do, worried if I am being the filial daughter, worried about future.. I thought planning ahead will give me security but not everything went as planned. Even though we all knew this but still I hope to assure myself by making plans. Last year, I was baptized after attending 1 year of RCIA. During my religious journey, I found myself calming / slowing down the pace of my footsteps. I give away my worries to God, knowing I can't see future but I can embrace the unexpected. If I have a terrible day, I take it as a learning curve that God is molding me to be a better person. There are times when I failed to be positive when down.. I will pray to bring comfort in me. Life is never a bed of roses.

Well, but I hope my birthday wish this year will come true soon. God can make the impossible, possible. I need to have a little faith in myself.

P/s: thanks to my family and mike c making my birthday as specials always^^

空间 Space

喜欢有自己的空间。
喜欢自己逛街。
喜欢自己到处走走。
喜欢自己阅读。
喜欢自己安排自己的时间。

我很喜欢这些时候的自己。
I love myself because I get to be myself.